The article says that flat tummies are beautiful but soft ones are beautiful too.
I love the reminder that this statement gives! It is direct and to the point but unfortunately the message conveyed never gets delivered it seems.
This society has become an ugly one because of how consumed and obsessed humanity has become over weight, I too fall into this category.
In the grand scheme of things I guess it is safe to say that we all struggle with finding that tummy we all consider to be perfect and beautiful. Either we work our butts off to flatten it the best we can or we spend our lives feeling unattractive and depressed over how we look.
Speaking from experience I know how hard it can be to accept yourself, especially after women have babies and their body doesn't go back to the way it was before- weight is a huge barrier that prevents people from living a fulfilled life.
Weight dictates how we feel about ourselves, how we act towards others, what we do with our lives, how we are accepted by others, and it also dictates many choices in our lives such as choosing to be in unhealthy relationships because we can't get any better or it can dictate our future by either encouraging us to commit to a road of fitness or sometimes drugs to rid the weight.
Weight determines the level of sexy a woman or man feels when intimate with others and it also can determine if a marriage lasts or fails.
Weight is the lie that says we aren't good enough, but it is also the truth that says our weight doesn't determine the wealth of our beauty.
Society tells us that a size 4 or 6 is a plus size and flat stomachs are the way to go. Society also is supposed to be a place where all persons experience freedom and liberty to the fullest extent of each word.
A person can be beautiful no matter the size but unfortunately there are many people who judge based off of it. I read an article just yesterday about what guys will never say to their partners and one of the things said was that most men will never be quite satisfied when their ladies gain weight EXCEPT for pregnancy.
This particular statement really has me bothered because although pregnancy is a beautiful thing, it is also a very sizable contribution to why so many women's bodies don't stay in that honeymoon state.
If God had the intention of keeping women skinny or one weight for the rest of their lives, I have a Strong feeling that He would have left the child bearing to the men.
God created women in His image and He made our hearts like His, for some odd reason a woman's heart is not the first thing noticed or seen and it's an unfortunate part of humanity.
Big or small, weight is beautiful because a lot of times weight in people is nothing more than a trunk filled with a persons biggest hurts, fears, and innocence.
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